Sending a letter to ex?

since you asked, then i would say you might want to start with being honest with yourself. truth is you do want her back, and if you could do anything right now to accomplish that you would. your thoughts around sending a letter is to give it one last chance to see if she is interested. you have to know that what you are going through is normal. the end of a relationship is like dealing with a grief. it appears as though you are still in shock. you need to remember what the reality is and it is that she has ended the relationship, which means it is over. let yourself get to a place where you can accept it. in addition she has moved on, and regardless of how good or not good the relationship has nothing to do with you. it is best for you to focus on you. start doing some different things and carving out another path for yourself. the longer you allow yourself time to think and rethink this issue the less time you have for healing. never want someone who does not want you, because they will not respect you and eventually you will lose respect for yourself. if need be talk to someone who can help you. also i have left a link that will give you additional information. good luck.