Is it less embarring for women to be seen with bums than nerds?

Lots of Women seems to like bums... losers that are in and out of jail and that mooch of of them... they don't seem to show any shame in that... but they are embarred to even be seen with the "mild mannered programmer" or, no so well built, guy that wears a net shirt and khaki pants, but HAS A FREAKIN JOB!